Are you wiping correctly? The anal sex ed you never got, from an expert!

Interview with Dr. Evan Goldstein

Anal health and pleasure

16.06.24

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For this episode of the podcast, Tim spoke with leading anal health expert in the U.S., Dr Evan Goldstein. Dr Goldstein is the founder and CEO of Bespoke Surgical, a first of its kind health practice specialising in gay men’s sexual health and wellness, and the author of, Butt Seriously: The Definitive Guide to Anal Health, Pleasure, and Everything In-Between. 

Together, Tim and Dr. Goldstein discussed:  

  • The anatomy of the anus, and how this relates to pooping and anal sex 

  • Tips for anal hygiene  

  • Why you shouldn’t be using wet wipes instead of toilet paper 

  • How to get started with anal play 

  • Myths around the cleanliness and looseness of the anus 

  • The lowdown on douching 

  • How anal botox works 

  • Why open communication, education and access to proper care is essential for anyone wanting to engage in anal play 

Find Dr Evan Goldstein here: https://drevangoldstein.com/ 

Check out Butt Seriously here: https://a.co/d/cRLA0vF 

Timestamps:  

00:00 – Podcast summary 

00:38 - Intro 

02:10 – How stigma limits people’s ability to experience pleasure 

05:38 – Understanding the anatomy of your ass 

07:20 – Quick tips for anal health 

08:21 – Why you shouldn't be using wet wipes instead of toilet paper 

10:21 – Why you should shower before bed 

11:22 – How Dr. Goldstein started working in this space 

16:20 – A note from Sex in Space 

16:35 – Things you should know about anal sex 

19:43 – You should be able to feel sexy anally  

23:04 – Why is there so much stigma around anal sex?  

25:51 – How you can get started with anal play 

30:41 – Understanding which type of bottom you are 

32:43 – Anal sex is for anyone 

38:43 – Douching, pooping + anal 

44:24 – How anal botox works 

48:04 – Why it matters that people can access care for anal health 

52:15 – Why education matters so much 

55:15 – Understanding the prostate and the A-zone to enhance pleasure 

56:36 – Conclusion  

 

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